People are strange, we all have quirks that sometimes gets you funny looks from others or qualities that make others want your advise, some are lucky enough to have both. Others seem to be instigators who love drama, now this can be a good thing as long as this drama does not cause hurt feelings.
Drama is something that I do not want in my life, I want my friends to remain good friends and I want to live long enough to see my grandchildren grow up and to be a part of their lives.
I have no respect for thieves or liars and people who make others miserable because they thrive on this drama fall into the above category, You can't control other people this way and when someone is doing this to you all that can be done to keep yourself sane is to not participate in their little game, if they want to play this way take your football and go home because if you do this then you won't look like the evil one, if you lower yourself to their level then you are no better than them.
Thanks for listening to my little vent and I promise to have a more positive post next time.